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A Letter for Parents
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Sending a child to college can be a challenging and stressful time in a parent's life. While at the University of North Florida, your child will encounter many opportunities to become involved outside of their classroom experience. In fact, research has shown that 60% of all learning happens outside the classroom. It is important that you, the parent, be educated about the enriching experience that your son or daughter will find by being involved in a Fraternity or Sorority at UNF.
Joining a Fraternity or Sorority is oftentimes called “Going Greek.” This namesake toward Fraternities and Sororities is well-coined. Centuries ago, the ancient Greeks developed “ritual” as the way of transitioning their young men into warriors and their young women into fearless leaders. This was a way of “initiating” their sons and daughters into life. It was a very proud process – one of letting their children go from the covering of their youth, and spurring them to venture out and find themselves through the discovery of their own personal courage, strength, and confidence. They began with the nerve, the goal, the raw ambition and notion to push; to train; to move; to enliven…to UNLEASH them into the world, ready for anything; proving them so strong, so capable, that victory in life would be inevitable.
Today, Fraternities and Sororities carry-on this ancient legacy of the Greeks by embodying their same resolute mindset. By adhering to their founders’ sets of strong ethics and values, and truly readying today’s college students through leadership development and character-building, Fraternal organizations can equip their Brothers and Sisters for success; preparing them for victory in life; ready for anything the world has to throw at them.
What does involvement in a Fraternity or Sorority entail?
Animal House, Old School, House Bunny, the television show Greek, etc., all give ridiculous and false examples of what belonging to a Fraternal organization entails. Movies, television, and news programs often depict outrageous and erroneous portrayals with regard to being involved in a Fraternity or Sorority. In addition, cases of hazing, binge-drinking, and the like covered in the news are condemned, not tolerated, extremely unfortunate, illegal, and rare within today’s Fraternities and Sororities.
What the media does not share with you as a parent are the many life-long benefits to membership in Fraternities and Sororities. Leadership is bolstered; confidence soars; academic goals are realized; scholarship monies are rewarded; fellowship is cemented; millions of hours are given in service to the community; hundreds of millions of dollars are raised toward philanthropic endeavors; networking and career connections are unleashed. At a mid-sized university in a large city like UNF, membership in one of our 24 nationally-recognized Fraternities and Sororities offers an instant connection of friends, incredible opportunities for personal and career advancement, and a true home away from home.
Additionally, national research has indicated that involvement in fraternities and sororities increases students' chances of graduating from college. Research has also shown that the grade point averages of members within a Fraternity or Sorority are higher than those not affiliated, all across North America. Then there are the facts that all but 3 United States Presidents since 1825 are members of Fraternities; an average 76% of Congress is Greek; 85% of Fortune 500 executives are Brothers and Sisters; and 85% of Supreme Court Justices are members of Fraternal organizations.
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Your Role as a Parent
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Your role as a parent is important as your student decides whether to join a Fraternity or Sorority. Encourage your student to find out more information about the UNF Fraternity & Sorority Community. They can do this at Orientation, through the latest edition of the Greek Book (available as a pdf, below the left-hand menu items on the main page of this website), on the World Wide Web, by talking with members of Fraternities and Sororities, and by going through recruitment and intake processes.
Ask questions about the group(s) your student is considering, but trust that they will make the best decision for themselves. If your student joins a Fraternity or Sorority, University staff and chapter advisors are available to answer any questions or concerns you may have and to provide you with additional information. Call the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life at (904) 620-2526 for more information and a detailed listing of contact information for chapter advisors.
Most importantly, be as supportive as you can. The decision to join a Fraternity or Sorority is an exciting, life-changing commitment with benefits extending far beyond one's college years. Here are several ways to ensure that you are being an active and informed supporter of your student as they become involved in a Fraternity or Sorority:
• Learn about the Fraternity/Sorority by visiting the chapter’s website and the official website of the Fraternity/Sorority (inter)national headquarters. Review the Fraternity/Sorority mission, values, and tenants of membership
• Encourage your student to take advantage of chapter services, leadership opportunities, and scholarships
• Encourage your student to attend the educational programs of the chapter and through the Office of Fraternity & Sorority Life
• Know the contact information for the chapter, big brother/big sister, Fraternity/Sorority headquarters, and the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life
• Find out the details of the financial obligations of the organization
• Encourage your student to take a leadership role in his or her chapter
• Stay involved with them by attending Parents' Day functions, mother/daughter + father/son outings, or by attending community service projects with them
• Encourage your student to get involved in other campus organizations and volunteer organizations
• Know the grade requirements for new and active members
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Q: Will my student's academics be compromised by joining a Greek organization?
A: On the contrary, a central mission of all Fraternity and Sorority organizations is academic excellence. Fraternities and Sororities understand that their members are students first and foremost. All chapters have scholarship requirements and programs that may include study hours, tutoring, academic mentoring, scholarships, and other recognitions for academic success.
Q: Is hazing considered a tradition among UNF Fraternities and Sororities?
A: Hazing has no place in any Fraternity or Sorority organization. UNF will not tolerate hazing in any student organization. In addition, hazing is against the law in the State of Florida. All Fraternity and Sorority members know that hazing is against their national policies, university policy, and the law.
Q: Does it cost a lot to be Greek?
A: Joining a Fraternity or Sorority does carry a financial commitment. Each chapter is self-supporting with revenue coming from dues paying members. When students join a Greek organization, they agree to pay dues and fees while enrolled at UNF in order to maintain membership. Scholarship money (often in the thousands) is widely available for members in Fraternities and Sororities who excel academically. In addition, many chapters are able to make accommodations for special circumstances (payment plans, etc.). While Fraternity and Sorority membership is affordable, students should discuss the financial obligations with you before they join. The cost of membership within each organization varies greatly, and specific questions should be directed toward each individual Fraternity or Sorority chapter.
Q: Does being a member of a Greek-letter organization have benefits after graduation?
A: Absolutely. Fraternity and Sorority membership is a life-long commitment. Once you are an initiated member, you remain a member for life. As such, each national organization has an extensive alumni network. As you know, in today's job market it is not only important what you know, but who you know. Being a Fraternity or Sorority member means having an immediate connection with tens of thousands of other members. There are many successful Fraternity and Sorority alumni across the globe who are always looking to hire the best and the brightest that our Community has to offer. In addition, there are alumni groups or graduate chapters that operate in most cities and metropolitan areas across the country. If you find yourself in a new city, you can start your networking with your brothers or sisters in a local alumni group.
Q: How does my student get involved?
A: Recruitment/Intake occurs during different times of the year, but mainly in the beginning weeks of the Fall and Spring semester. For more information, please visit the "Recruitment" portion of the main Fraternity & Sorority Life website.
Q: How can I learn more about what being involved in a Fraternity or Sorority is all about?
A: See the "Resources" left-hand menu item on the main Fraternity & Sorority Life website.
Please also visit the individual chapter websites, linked from the“Chapter Profiles” page.
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